If you are seeking a significant other, whether you be hetero, homo, or of some variant queer persuasion, make sure the romantic candidate doesn't mind if you don't shave your legs/pits/face/bush/etc. This person obviously has the freedom to appreciate a smooth shin or cheek (sure, of course), but not being put off my body hair & the fact that you are biologically human says a lot about someone's character.
Mind you, this is coming from a naturally very hairy white grrl who has the ability to grow her underarms up to two inches in length.
Also refer to the following Charles Bukowski quote:
she wants me to write a love poem
but I think if people can't love each others ass holes
and farts
and shits
and terrible parts
just like they love the good parts
that ain't complete love
from The Best Love Poem I Can Write At The Moment
I agree! That's what I love, love, love about my boyfriend; he'll appreciate when I put an effort in my appearance, but he basically finds me stunning all the time, even when I feel like a zombie...
ReplyDeleteThis year's the first summer I've waxed my legs so little and far in between, and it has a lot to do with the way my boyfriend seems completely blind to my body hairs. I suppose he has the honesty to recognize that my hairiest is still nothing compared to his ;) (and I love his hairiness too)
<3
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